So much for my resolution on Monday to write every day. Onward to 7 Quick Takes!
1) This morning was the monthly men's group breakfast, and we started watching Fr. Robert Barron's "Seven Deadly Sins/Seven Lively Virtues" series. The first deadly sin covered was pride, and its antithetical virtue is humility. The content was great, as would be expected of Fr. Barron. It pointed out to me how proud of a person I am, and how tough of a vice it is to fight. That's kind of a proud thing to say, in the sense of false humility ("oh, I'm suuuuuch a sinner!"), but I really do mean it (which is what the falsely humble would also say, too, to insist how sincere their nothingness is). Being selfish is incredibly easy, especially in this culture...
2) ...nothing pointed that out to me more than a movie we watched tonight, "He's Just Not That Into You." Whenever we first watched it, I remember enjoying it more than we did tonight. Just about all the characters were selfish and shallow. Love had more to do with the feeling of the moment and what was good for the self. Only one couple out of the ensemble cast displayed some selfless aspects of love, and they finished the movie by committing to each other and promising never to get married. Romantic, isn't it?
3) It stuck out to me for two reasons. The first, I'm so thankful to be Catholic. (false humility warning) Life has meaning, and love doesn't have to fit into the inadequate definitions of a pagan movie. Because as the good Fr. Barron taught us this morning, love is willing the good for the other. And doing so leads to the second striking thing...
4) ...love is a very difficult choice to make. So many people inflict pain on themselves through bad choices. One of the characters in the movie started an affair with a married man (at the suggestion of her friend), and it was a disaster. The married man lost his wife and mistress due to his lying; the mistress ended up more confused and more wounded than before; the wife genuinely tried to make an effort to work on the marriage, but it was too late. Relationships evolve over time, how could they not? The essence stays the same (or hopefully should), but the particulars are bound to change.
5) I looked through our wedding albums tonight after my beloved wife went to bed. It reminded me of that fact that relationships evolve. I remember what it was like when we first became a couple. It was amazing and thrilling! Those thrills didn't disappear, but were composed differently as time went on--one month, two, six, and so on--we started talking marriage. Then we were engaged, and planning the wedding, and what a glorious day the wedding was! We've been married over 4 years and have an adorable baby. There's no way we can go back to what it was like when we'd only been dating two months... and I wouldn't want to. Our love has taken root, grown, been pruned by suffering, and grown some more. What we have is wonderful!
6) In the movie, they had flip phones and Blackberries. Flip phones!!! Was 2009 really that long ago?
7) I'm always a take short. Since the theme of the 7QT is love, I'd like to recommend Love Love Teriyaki in Salem (the one on Center St.). Erin introduced me to it years ago and it's the best teriyaki I've ever had. Now I'm hungry...
1) This morning was the monthly men's group breakfast, and we started watching Fr. Robert Barron's "Seven Deadly Sins/Seven Lively Virtues" series. The first deadly sin covered was pride, and its antithetical virtue is humility. The content was great, as would be expected of Fr. Barron. It pointed out to me how proud of a person I am, and how tough of a vice it is to fight. That's kind of a proud thing to say, in the sense of false humility ("oh, I'm suuuuuch a sinner!"), but I really do mean it (which is what the falsely humble would also say, too, to insist how sincere their nothingness is). Being selfish is incredibly easy, especially in this culture...
2) ...nothing pointed that out to me more than a movie we watched tonight, "He's Just Not That Into You." Whenever we first watched it, I remember enjoying it more than we did tonight. Just about all the characters were selfish and shallow. Love had more to do with the feeling of the moment and what was good for the self. Only one couple out of the ensemble cast displayed some selfless aspects of love, and they finished the movie by committing to each other and promising never to get married. Romantic, isn't it?3) It stuck out to me for two reasons. The first, I'm so thankful to be Catholic. (false humility warning) Life has meaning, and love doesn't have to fit into the inadequate definitions of a pagan movie. Because as the good Fr. Barron taught us this morning, love is willing the good for the other. And doing so leads to the second striking thing...
4) ...love is a very difficult choice to make. So many people inflict pain on themselves through bad choices. One of the characters in the movie started an affair with a married man (at the suggestion of her friend), and it was a disaster. The married man lost his wife and mistress due to his lying; the mistress ended up more confused and more wounded than before; the wife genuinely tried to make an effort to work on the marriage, but it was too late. Relationships evolve over time, how could they not? The essence stays the same (or hopefully should), but the particulars are bound to change.
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| In front of St. Patrick's Cathedral (that the Anglicans really should give back to the Catholics), on our honeymoon in Ireland |
6) In the movie, they had flip phones and Blackberries. Flip phones!!! Was 2009 really that long ago?
7) I'm always a take short. Since the theme of the 7QT is love, I'd like to recommend Love Love Teriyaki in Salem (the one on Center St.). Erin introduced me to it years ago and it's the best teriyaki I've ever had. Now I'm hungry...
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